Intimidated:

1. persuade or dissuade by frightening: to persuade somebody to do something or dissuade somebody from doing something by frightening him or her, for example, by means of violence or blackmail

2. daunt: to create a feeling of fear, awe, or inadequacy in somebody

Have you ever been told that someone was intimidated by you?

This was the first time in my life that someone told me this. I think the second definition might fit why. Not naming names, but someone in my life’s told me their wife felt this way about me. I wonder if she thought it was because I’m such a strong-willed person. I am very outgoing. Also, as you have read on this blog, I’m saying it the way it should be said. Ever since my being laid off from E&Y, I’ve kind of become intraverted. I’ve been afraid to tell people what I think. I’ve decided not to be that way anymore.

Secretly, I’m wondering if there are feelings of inadequacy since my friend and I were very close for a long time. But, that was a long time ago. If you are secure in your relationship, you shouldn’t be concerned with someone who might be stronger than you. Plus, I have a theory, but this is one time I’ll keep my tongue. Some of you might know what that is since, as you can imagine from reading, my friend is a man.

Okay. Just thought I would throw this question out among friends. If you can respond to the question, I would love to read your comments.

Love to all,
Cathy
8^ )